How do I make my man Happy?? This is a common problem to most ladies in Africa especially Kenya. This makes them call Kenyan men “inefficient” yet you are the problem.. Have you ever tried these facts before?? Lets try out this ideas on how to make him happy!!
Happiness Is A Two-Way Street:If you are only ever focusing on making your man happy, but he never puts in any effort to make you happy then you have a recipe for disaster. Relationships require both of you to work on them. If you are constantly doing nice things for your man and making sure that he’s enjoying your relationship, but he’s not reciprocating, then you are potentially heading into troubled waters. It’s not just a case of expecting him to do nice things for you. Often you’ll need to literally tell him.
Relationships Are About More Than Making Someone Happy:Making your partner happy in your relationship is obviously very important, but there are other crucial factors that you need to pay attention to if you want to have a fulfilling relationship with your man. These include shared experiences, a common connection, physical attraction and obviously enjoying each others company as well as many other things.
Okay, now lets get to some very specific things that you can do if you want to know how to make your man happy:
Random Intimate Acts: An awesome way to make your man happy and keep him happy is by doing little random intimate acts for him every 10 days or so.
They don’t need to be some massive show of appreciation and love— just something small. Most importantly, you need to do them when your man is not expecting them.
Here are a few ideas:
*.Lighting Candles In The Bedroom: One night when you are both getting ready for bed, try lighting a few tea lights in your bedroom and make love in the candle light.
*.Shower For Two: One morning (preferably on the weekend), follow your man into the shower and wash him. It’s really hot and a great way to show him how much you care about him.
*.Wear Something Really Hot (When You’re Both Alone): The next time you are both alone and both have some free time, slip into some really sexy like lingerie or some clothes that you know your man loves.(personally i love it when my girl is in my large size T-shirt;);))
It makes for a really sexy surprise for your man. Bonus points for cooking him a meal in your sexy getup.
*.Your Position In The Bedroom:Another awesome way to make your man happy is to learn some new positions to use in the bedroom. Then the next time you’re both in bed together, surprise your man with them. If your man is usually the one who leads things in the bedroom, then it can be a little nerve-wrecking, but just do it anyway. You’ll be glad to see that most guys are thrilled when you are the initiator.
Random Acts Of Fun:Earlier I talked about using random intimate acts to make your man happy and keep him happy. By making it random, then your man will get to see your spontaneous side which is an awesome way to keep your relationship interesting for both of you. Random acts of fun follow the same pattern. Your aim is to do something fun together. It doesn’t have to be cool or super unique, just something fun like trying a new sport together, going on holidays to somewhere really different or even just going to a bar neither of you have been to before. Remember, the idea is not to do something cool or expensive,it’s to do something fun.
Have You Told Your Man How Your Feel About Him? It’s a secret that all guys will never admit, (i admit🙈🙈 that shit is nice) but the truth is that men need reassurance just as much as anyone else. I’m not suggesting that you tell your man how you feel about him 50 times a day. Hiyo ni excess….Instead, I’m suggesting, that every once in a while, remind your man why you like him so much. Guys are logical, so they are always looking for reasons and the meaning behind things. So it’s important to tell him why. So there could be something physical that you adore about him or the way he talks or maybe it’s the way your man holds himself. Maybe he has the cutest dimples 😉😉 (they claim i got).
Whatever it is, let him know from time to time. It will keep your man extremely happy!.
Adios!! I hope that was helpful…